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Whether moving across
town or across country, it can be stressful for children... but
it doesn't have to be. Children have many worries, many of which
can be helped by talking to them and involving them in the process.
Whatever the reason for the move, openness and honesty are essential.
Children of all ages are usually capable of dealing with a move
when given time, support and understanding.
Here are some tips
that will help smooooth your moooove with kids:
- Maintain a positive outlook. Children can pick up on parents'
attitudes.
- Tell your children about the move as soon as it is decided,
so they have time to adjust to the idea. It's particularly
important to explain why the move is taking place, so they
understand the reasons for the change.
- Children worry about fitting into the new school/neighborhood.
Try to get as much information for them. Look into clubs or
activities in your new hometown and discuss them with the
children.
- Let your children be involved in planning for the move.
Involve them in packing their belongings. Allow them to carry
special treasures (within reason) when you travel.
- For the actual moving day trip, pack a special kit for
each child with coloring books, games and special foods. This
will help make moving special.
- If possible, plan to take family pets along to keep things
as stable as possible.
- Try to keep the family schedule as normal as possible to
give your child a sense of security.
- If the new school is significantly different, be willing
to seek a tutor for your child immediately.
- Be patient. Roots grow slowly.
As a
service to RichmondKids, we offer additional information to relocating
families.
Please give us a call at 1-800-342-6683.
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